Pyron, Darras Robert Lee Ryder 8 Aug 1991 Click on the thumbnail below to enlarge. If your browser shrinks the full obituary image to fit within the browser window, you may need to click on the image one more time to display its full size. 08 Aug 1991 Please add a message of remembrance to the guestbook for this obituary. Click the button below to add your thoughts. Michael San Francisco, CA 6 May 2020 I met Bobby when I was 18 in West Hollywood and took me to his place in Laguna. We were about the same age, but he was much more comfortable in his skin about being gay which helped me immensely. He did it mainly by just being himself, talking about the tacky A-gay queens of Laguna and scandalously walking up with rolled up cuffs with his Levis. Very early on, he introduced me to a bunch of my high school classmate from Huntington Beach HS which blew me away. He steered me well clear of the porn universe as well. He was just such a total sweetheart and I can still hear his voice in my mind's ear. 40 some years later, I still think of him with love and thankfulness. Copyright © 2009. No part of this database may be copied or reproduced without permission.